Love

Have you ever think of what is love©??
Basically, what is love? Do you ever found the answer?

How do you know it's love? Because you missed that person? Because you care for that person? Because you can't get rid of that person from your mind? Or what is it?

I know, I know, I know. It's complicated. Everyone will have different perception about love.

Do you think you only love 1 person at a time? Or you can love many people at the same time? So what you say/think?

Why human never satisfied with what they already got/have/owned? I know this is a desire that every human will have, even I also got but yet I still don't know why. [Maybe I should stop asking "why" =.=] Maybe because this desire will push to work harder? Play harder? Think harder? Hmm... So that you can have/own something better...?? Well... It's ok but not so ok if it's regards a relationship. Some people tend to have 2 or more [you know what]. So is that mean that person can love 2 people at 1 time? Or just to satisfied some sort of "desire"? Hahaha.. I never could figure out that.

People alway say Love is complicated. Yes.. Indeed I very agreed with that but relationship is far more complicated than love >.< Cause it's not only involve with love but with tolerance and care too.. [and other that you could list of]. It's easy to fall in love but it's never easy to maintain a relationship..

Let me ask you a question.. Will you leave the one you love know for someone else? Or somethings else? Which is much much better than the one that you have now...

Ok, ok.. I know the answer. "Depends on situations" Hahaha... Guess so.. [If you have different answer then seriously you must let me know cause I'm curious ^^]

Guess that's all for today ^^ Hmm.. Will ask again when got new questions... Hahaha..

P/S Just out of sudden have this kind of questions pop into my mind. I always have this kind of questions but never got the answer >.< No matter in or out of relationship.©

Scandal in Relationship

  Scandal. What is the 1st thing that you will think of???

  I bet you will think of a guy have 2 gfs or more. What about a gal that have more than 1 bf?

  Actually this is very common nowsaday but not to everyone.

  When I was young{not meaning that I'm very old now], I don't know anything about love or relationship but I do admirer some guys. It's more like liking an idol. My friends got bf [I'm from gal school so mostly my friends are girl], got gf[yes, correct it's gf cause they are "L"] and some even married before they turn 18. And, of course, I'm not 1 of them. ^^

  The 1st time I really fall for someone is when I'm 19 and OMG, I'm the 3rd person in the relationship. >.< I don't even know what was happening at that time. It just start and end like that. So is this a scandal? I got many experiences in this. T.T And I'm not proud of it. I tried to put a stop to it but it always back to me without I knowing it.

  In the end, I started not to believe in guys. I started been very suspicious and very consious whom I'm going out with. I will ask whether they are in relationship in the 1st place but normally I don't trust it. They can lie about it[this is what I have learned]. You can see this in club. You will see the same guy bringing different gal every time. It really freak me out.

  But to my surprise, the gals in the club also doing the same.. >.< Even I, personally have a friend doing that. I couldn't do much. I persuaded her many time but failed. In the end, I just gave up. It's her life, and I don't want to bother to muuch. And I started to accept this kind of "cultural".

  It's not that I'm "open", but I experienced so many times that I'm the 3rd party so why gals can't do that back to guys? Why guys can do whatever they want but gals can't? It's just not fair.

  So.. It's not only guys can have few gf but gals also can have few bf.

P/S: I realised there is a funny part. Where the guys have scandals while their gf is a very good gf and vice versa. One of my friend also not happy about it. She is good & loyal to his bf and her bf treat her very bad but there is another friend that got a lots of bf and they all treat her very good. Why is that so??? This is really a question mark to both of us.